Thread: I think i hate my best friend..

Ive been best friends with him for over, two years. But over the last few months i think ive sort of developed a hate for him.
When we first met he didnt have many friends so i helped him, and i helped his confidence too. But at the start of this year we started hanging around a new group of friends, theyre much nicer and we feel more comfortable around them. But since we've been with them his confidence has increased alot, which was good at first. But since then he's gotten more arrogant as well.
Not like "oh im better than everyone else", he doesnt say it outloud, its just that he expects more than everyone else. Also he's french, so all the girls love him disregarding his personality.
When im talking to my friends without him around, they say they like me better because im funner and more considerate. Which i try very hard to be, and he doesnt try to be those at all. But when we are at parties and stuff everyone pays more attention to him despite what they say.
Its been making me feel worse and worse over the last few months because i keep trying so hard to make everyone around me happy but its just made them take me for granted. My best friend on the other hand gets alot of attention and respect for nothing, he's not a people person at all.

But obviously i cant really just go up to him and say "your a good friend but i hate you because people treat me unfairly around you"
What should i do about this? Should i talk to my best friend about it? Or to my other friends who are giving him the attention?

Thanks for any advice...

if he is ur best friend talk to him about it
u shouldn't lie to friends

goodness! Best friends shouldnt compete with each other..

if the friends you hang out with dont appreciate you, then they arent really your true friends ...
and if your really bestfriends with the guy, tell him what you feel..what you think about him...how you can make your relationship better..
But sometimes, you cant avoid being jealous about not getting the attention from other people... its normal..
but seriously, you guys shouldnt be bestfriends if you hate him...
if he's arrogant, tell him to stop...
and if he dumps you after correcting him, he's not really your bestfriend either, bcuz its plain and clear that he was just using you..

hmm..

Does he have a sister? If so go for it.. He'll never look at you the same again

I think you should talk to him and let him know how your feeling, like the other guy's said, if he is your true best friend then he will value your opinion and try to be more considerate in the future!