Ive been best friends with him for over, two years. But over the last few months i think ive sort of developed a hate for him.
When we first met he didnt have many friends so i helped him, and i helped his confidence too. But at the start of this year we started hanging around a new group of friends, theyre much nicer and we feel more comfortable around them. But since we've been with them his confidence has increased alot, which was good at first. But since then he's gotten more arrogant as well.
Not like "oh im better than everyone else", he doesnt say it outloud, its just that he expects more than everyone else. Also he's french, so all the girls love him disregarding his personality.
When im talking to my friends without him around, they say they like me better because im funner and more considerate. Which i try very hard to be, and he doesnt try to be those at all. But when we are at parties and stuff everyone pays more attention to him despite what they say.
Its been making me feel worse and worse over the last few months because i keep trying so hard to make everyone around me happy but its just made them take me for granted. My best friend on the other hand gets alot of attention and respect for nothing, he's not a people person at all.
But obviously i cant really just go up to him and say "your a good friend but i hate you because people treat me unfairly around you"
What should i do about this? Should i talk to my best friend about it? Or to my other friends who are giving him the attention?
Thanks for any advice...