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how did you not know your sister was anorexic?
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Some people hide it very well.
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still i'd of thought it's one of the most physically obvious things?
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it can be hard to tell if what they're wearing is covering it up. seriously i once had an eating disorder and made myself way to thin and people don't notice like you think they would.
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you can't cover your entire body up 24/7
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i did. and well yeah i guess it didn't last for long so..
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You can phone childline from any phone box or even from your house phone, it's free so it won't show up on the bill.

No it's not bad that you're angry with her, that's part of the grief from losing her so suddenly and not knowing what she was doing. Your loss is still raw and from what you wrote in the OP I'm guessing that she was the only person you could turn to so you may be feeling that she's unfairly left you.

Really try and talk to someone about this, maybe a trusted adult from outside the family, like a teacher or something?
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'where's Tamsin?'
anyone else just shit a brick?


how many brothers/sisters do you have?
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If this is someone just 'trolling' I am going to be extremely pissed off
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1 brother and 3 sisters now.
Why?? Did you know my sister??
you're all home schooled right?
and not allowed out of the house unless you're with someone?


if this is a joke then that's fucking sick by my standards, if not then shit...............
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I don't understand, did you know her? Did you know her in real life? Did she come on here?
Why would I make something like this up, I didn't come on here to be questioned about whether it was true or not, I just wanted help getting through this. I don't need this right now.
A user called tamsin came here daily until a few days ago.

she's about 5'1 and pretty much matches your entire description.


i'm so fucking confused right now
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Hey we're sorry hun it's just abit of a shock is all, could you do me a massive favour and sign up to be a member of this site?
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I'm sorry, I didn't know.
Did you know that she had it? Did she tell you?
God. I'm sorry.
well none of us spotted it before but now you've mentioned all this it really makes sense.

i'm still not entirely sure we're talking about the same person......i really really really hope we're not.
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Omg that really sucks, we're so sorry for your loss, she was a lovely person who I did admire greatly. I'm still hoping it isn't though, either way I offer my condolances to you and your family.
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that's understandable, i'm really sorry for your loss.

i'm still not 100% on this, i hope i'm wrong for once.
i'm really going to miss her if that is the same tamsin

i think i'm in shock

edit: could you possibly tell us where you're from, i really want to be certain
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How coincidental...

Try and talk to your parents about it. You might feel like you can't, but if you are homeschooled, and aren't allowed out of the house, then your mom or dad have to expect that they might need to be there for you. I'm sure they want to talk as well. THings like these CAN make families closer together. Family is important.
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Thank you. I'm sorry about the way I told you, if I'd have known, I don't know. Tried.
It's nice to know that she had friends, at least of a sort, so thanks.

We're from Surrey (South East England).
I have tried to talk to them, but they just keep brushing me off. I don't know.
sorry for all the questions but is the place called aldershot?
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I hope this is a misunderstanding but either way I'm sorry for your loss.
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i really hope you get through this o.k. and i hope your brother and sisters will be fine aswell.




mann i really hope the tamsin we're talking about isn't our tamsin
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